There is nothing you can not be, do or have when you activate and use this unlimited power within you. Here are the 10 simple ways to attract your soulmate with the law of attraction:
1. Define clearly what you are looking for in your ideal partner.
Every “failed” relationship has given you clues about what you are looking for (and not looking for) at your ideal partner. The problem is that many women and men focus only on the negative and they forget the “positive”. For example, by saying that you do not want a partner who “puts work first”, you attract a new person who puts work before love because it is the message that you send unconsciously through your energy.
The good news is that if you know what you do not want, you also know what you want. Your creative power lies in your ability to choose clear thoughts about what you are looking for so that you can tell the universe exactly what you want: “I want to meet a partner who loves me unconditionally”.
You can understand what you are attracting is positive or negative by the way it makes you feel. If you feel good, it’s positive. If it makes you feel bad, it’s negative. It’s so simple. If you think you have negative thoughts, just flip them and start focusing on the positive. You will immediately feel better and you will be in alignment with love.
2. Continue to visualize your partner and your relationship.
If you are ready for love, one of the best things to do is to lose yourself by dreaming of your ideal companion. When you imagine your ideal partner, the universe receives these images as indicators of what needs to be created in your life. In your imagination, you can create and improve your desired relationship until it meets your ideal.
Once you have that ideal image in your mind, play it again and again, until one day you actually find yourself living it. The power of your imagination is unstoppable and can transform your love life.
3. Fall in love with yourself.
You can not expect someone to fall in love with you if you do not love yourself first. When we judge ourselves or criticize ourselves, we send energy that repels others. Self-criticism is a negative energy that will repel potential partners. On the other hand, self-love is attractive and attracts potential partners.
Write down the list of ten characteristics that you like most from yourself. No matter what is on the list, the important thing is to improve your relationship with yourself and the words you use when you talk about yourself. The more you focus on what you love about yourself, the more you will feel the love that will attract your soulmate.
4. Stop being jealous.
It is natural to feel jealous when you see someone living something that you want and do not have, but jealousy will actually prevent love from coming to you.
Jealousy is a negative emotion that will push back what you want. Instead of feeling jealous, if you see someone living your dream, your dream is getting closer. So, instead of being jealous, celebrate the love you see, you communicate to the universe that you are ready to love.
5. Continue to believe it.
The first reason why the law of attraction does not seem to work is that people give up before they have attracted the change they want to have in their lives. It’s like ordering a delicious meal and then you leave the house before your order arrives. The order is on the way, but if you’re out of alignment, you’ll miss it.
When it comes to love, people are disappointed when their appointments do not meet their expectations and they do not see proof that true love is coming. By disappointment or fear of being disappointed, they give up, never knowing what they missed. The key to the law of attraction is that once you are clear, you want something specific, you must commit to it as long as necessary to manifest yourself in your life.
6. Drop the doubts.
We live in a universe where it is possible to live all our dreams and desires. One of the greatest obstacles to the manifestation of what we desire is doubt. We want something, but we doubt it is possible. It is in fact doubt that prevents him from coming.
Believing gives us a positive energy that opens the door to attraction. Doubt is a negative energy and closes that door. If you want to attract your ideal partner, you must have the impression to see it happen…
7. Have fun.
Do not wait for love to find you to start living. If you are looking for a partner who is active and who likes to read, you’d better start jogging and spend time in bookstores for the pleasure of choosing books.
Do not wait until your partner arrives to live your best life. Start living your best life now and this special person will finally find you!
8. Become the person you want to be.
One of the best ways to use the law of attraction to attract your ideal partner is to become the person who is already in the relationship you want to live.
Here’s how it works: Imagine you are living your perfect relationship. How are you different from today? How will you change once you have this relationship? If the answer is: “I am becoming relaxed, confident, loving and kind.” You have devoured the best version of you. Do not wait for the relationship to manifest itself; you must first become the person who already has these qualities. This includes making space for the partner of your dreams: think of all the ways you can prepare yourself and prepare your life to align perfectly with your ideal partner.
9. Re-program your beliefs.
Examine your beliefs about love and eliminate all beliefs that prevent you from attracting your partner, having and/or keeping your relationship perfect (“I’m not attractive enough” “I do not earn enough “money” etc.).
The universe has the means to turn your beliefs into reality, so if a belief does not help you get what you really want, it’s time to drop it and develop beliefs that work for you.
10. Trust the universe.
Your job is to define clearly and positively what you want most and to align with your desire using all the means described above. Your job is not “how”. We live in a magical universe that can bring you exactly what you desire in the most amazing and even the most incredible way.
If you try to control the “how”, you are probably making the manifestation of this new relationship more difficult. Instead, give up any idea of how this should happen and let the universe do its magic. It does not mean that you stay at home without doing anything. The difference is that you are waiting for an inspired action.
The inspired action is that sudden feeling that you should go to the cafe even if you do not feel like going out, or that you should be refueling on the other side of the street. The law of attraction communicates with you through your intuition, so make sure you listen and follow these instincts. Above all, be open to all possibilities – you never know how the universe will give you what you asked for.