Just because someone thinks you owe them something doesn’t mean you actually do it. Instead of feeding everyone, start feeding yourself. You don’t have to explain yourself to anyone, especially those who don’t understand you or what you’re doing.
Your life is your life and you are free to do whatever you want within it. Of course, thesve things have consequences, but in the end, if you make your own decisions, you are at least the one in control.
If you don’t hurt anyone and do things on your own, don’t worry about what people around you are going to think.
Below we will go over some of the things people think they have to explain to others when they don’t really have to. If someone is harassing you about any of these things, be sure to tell them to say hello to your middle finger:
1. Your religious views or lack of them:
No one on this planet needs to know your religious opinions if you don’t want to. You don’t have to be religious to be a good person, and you don’t have to go to church every Sunday to believe in a specific religion.
Do things your way and stop responding to others.
2. Why you care about people you care about:
Of course, you care about your loved ones for your own reasons, but those reasons will not make sense to everyone. There is no point in trying to explain because people only see what they want to see.
You do not need to tell others why you are friends with whom you are friends as long as you know that friendship is worth having all that matters.
3. Your dreams, goals, and priorities.
If you share these things with others, they will only pull you down. The more you share, the less likely you will do and those who want to sabotage will find the upper hand.
Don’t waste your time sharing your goals and the like with people who don’t really care about you in the first place.
4. Why you are single and if you are looking for somebody:
Being single is not as bad as people claim it is. If you’re looking for love but you haven’t found it, that’s fine, but there’s nothing wrong with not wanting love.
Either way, others should not be caught in your love life.
5. Your living situation no matter how odd it may be:
Sure, you may still be living with your ex’s mother, but it’s not anyone’s business, but yours. Other people do not have the right to judge you and they do not need to know why you are doing what you are doing if you do not want to.
They do not know what you are facing and will not understand even if you explain.
6. Why you don’t want to have kids:
If you don’t want kids, then you don’t want kids. You don’t have to explain to someone that the world is too messed up to enter or that you can’t stand children.
You have the right to do with your reproductive organs what you want and that means not to use them “that way” if you do not want to.
7. Why you look the way you do:
We are all unique in our own way and whether you gain, lose, or get plastic surgery, your body is not someone else’s business.
You don’t have to tell someone why you eat more or why you are dieting. Your own personal reasons are your own personal reasons, period.