We all have concerns about our relationships, no matter how long they have lasted. For example, during first appointments, we wonder if the person holds to us as much as we care about her.
And when the relationship becomes official, we begin to wonder how long we will go through the big steps, like the presentations with our parents, living together. Over time, we are afraid to get into a routine and get tired, not to feel the same passion as at the beginning.
Nevertheless, what worries you most in a relationship may also depend on your astrological sign.
It may be useful to become aware of your concerns so that you can appease them with clear communication. You just have to be honest, loyal and reliable. By clearly expressing how you feel, it can help you ease your worries and make you feel safe, which can strengthen your relationship.
Find out what worries you most in a relationship, according to your zodiac sign:
Aries (March 21st – April 19th): Giving more than you get.
You are especially afraid to give all your energy to your partner and not to have in return. As you are full of energy, you have a lot to give. But sometimes it can give the impression that you are wearing the relationship.
To reassure you, ask your partner to give you time and attention for communication as soon as you can.
Taurus (April 20 – May 20): Not to be understood.
In a relationship, you want your values to be respected. You are afraid that the other person does not understand what you are looking for. This can be very frustrating because your heart understands the value of people, places and things.
Express what you care about and do not be afraid to invite your partner to discover what you love most.
Gemini (May 21 – June 20): Losing your freedom.
As a sign that aspires freedom, you are certainly afraid of losing your freedom. You must be able to feel that you can be yourself, even in a romantic relationship.
Do not try to change or play a role that does not suit you just because you think that’s what your partner wants. Instead, ask him to respect your individual choices.
Cancer (June 21 – July 22): Caring for others.
Cancer, you always feel responsible for everything and people will always let you down. As you are born with a natural understanding of caring and making someone feel safe, you will always assume your responsibilities.
You can sometimes feel a lot of pressure. So be sure to ask your partner for help when you need it.
Leo (July 23 – August 22): Feeling trapped.
If you are a Leo, you may always give too much of yourself to others and then feel trapped. You give a lot easily to others with the expectation of loyalty and commitment from each other in return. Your generosity is a good quality, but do not let it stifle your relationship.
Ask your partner to help with housework, and take time for yourself when needed.
Virgo (23 August – 22 September): To be able to trust.
You think that if you let your guard down and trust someone, it will hurt you. On the other hand, you tend to be too sensitive to hear negative comments or criticisms from others.
This concern about vulnerability can prevent you from developing deep relationships with a partner. Ask your partner to sit down with you to talk about what concerns you.
Libra (23 September – 22 October): Being smothered.
You are attached to your independence and autonomy, so you are afraid that by giving others what you want, it stops you from doing what you want, especially with your partner.
Even if you love your partner, do your best to set clear boundaries when you want to spend time with your friends or enjoy a hobby. If you want to do something without your partner, say it clearly without feeling guilty.
Scorpio (23 October – 21 November): Lies.
You are afraid to trust someone who might betray you or give you up later. But if you do not open up to your partner, it’s unlikely he’ll be completely honest with you. So develop the same qualities of honesty and sharing that you expect from your partner.
This will help you communicate what you expect in your relationship instead of ambiguity and suspicion.
Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21): Losing your partner.
Sagittarius, you are afraid of losing your partner if he does not spend enough time with you. You are so open-minded and free to travel and explore that you can easily be distracted.
Invite your partner to make excursions with you as soon as you have the opportunity. These adventures will help you get closer and feel safe.
Capricorn (December 22 – January 19): Losing control.
You are afraid of not being safe in the relationship if you take a risk or create a scene. You are not used to being spontaneous or losing control. Besides, you feel safe with consistency and predictability, you are not looking for a tumultuous relationship.
Tell your partner that you have trouble letting go and taking risks.
Aquarius (January 20 – February 18): Not to be really loved.
You are afraid of not feeling special or truly equal to your partner in your relationship. Instead of trying to convince yourself that you are “normal”, accept your singularity by staying yourself with your partner.
To be even more comfortable, explore all the quirks of your partner and celebrate them together.
Pisces (February 19 – March 20): That everything is not perfect.
As Pisces, you always want things to be in order and think there is a good way to do things. You tend to think that your partner will not do things the right way and focus on the negative rather than the positive.
So be sure to stay in the moment and appreciate all the positive things around you. Thank your partner for taking the time to help you instead of criticizing their way of doing things.
No matter what concerns you in your relationship, if you become aware of it and learn to communicate openly with your partner, it will make you feel safer.