Sometimes we are undecided about certain things, not really knowing where to go or how to react. One of the most difficult things in this world is probably getting to know each other well. And for that, astrology can help us to better understand ourselves and thus allow us to evolve.
So here are your 2 opposing personality traits and how to learn to strike the right balance between the two:
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Aries (March 21 – April 19):
Aries, you are a free and adventurous soul.
You aspire to the authenticity of life, but your perfectionist side prevents you from enjoying the moment.
Learn to sit with your emotions, and agree that you can only influence what you can control.
Taurus (April 20 – May 20):
You are nice and trustworthy, but you hardly trust others.
Although you invest heavily in your relationships, you banish people from your life as soon as things do not go the way you want. Learn to make room for tolerance, empathy and mutual respect, and you may discover that your opposing traits can be reconciled.
Gemini (May 21 – June 20):
You want to befriend everyone, but you do not accept differences in others (or in yourself).
It is only when you can accept people as they are that you will be comforted in the company of related spirits.
Cancer (June 21 – July 22):
You are a great romantic at heart, but you are bored easily.
Your passionate side makes you invest a lot in relationships and even pushes you to say “I love you” shortly after the beginning of the relationship. You want everything right away, but your interest fades as soon as you get to know the person better.
Learn how to channel your energy and accept that staying focused on other aspects of your life (not just your love life) can make you live in a moment of need.
Leo (July 23 – August 22):
You like to help others on a material level.
But you are looking for emotional support and you often feel misunderstood or not recognized enough for your true value. Learn that in life we must give in order to receive.
Virgo (August 23 – September 22):
You crave freedom but do not take a firm stand.
You are often stuck between the need to anchor yourself and follow a strict system of values and morals, and the desire to free yourself and live spontaneously, without thinking of tomorrow. You like to be in the center of attention, but you become jealous when you feel ignored. Let yourself be both rigorous and creative, turning inner control into imaginative planning.
Libra (September 23 – October 22):
You seek eternal love, but you do not make enough effort.
You like all things beautiful and inspiring, but when the script you have in mind does not correspond to reality, you go out without explanation. Learn to go deeper and take the time to know someone. You could be pleasantly surprised.
Scorpio (October 23 – November 21):
You are very protective of your friends, but also sometimes very vengeful.
If someone crosses the line with you, you avoid it overnight and often without giving the benefit of the doubt. Learn that no one is perfect and channel your inner strength into forgiveness, every person you meet will lead an inner battle that you may not know.
Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21):
You are a sensitive person, but you keep too much for yourself.
This is what keeps you from controlling your anger. You worry too much about the needs of others, but you do not manage to express your own concerns to the point of attacking others. Create a balance in your life by responding openly to your needs and expectations and learn to say no when necessary.
Capricorn (December 22 – January 19):
You with the heart on your hand, but you are sometimes lazy.
You feel comfortable with others and as soon as you make a friendship, a relationship or a business, you tend to do nothing. You must learn to participate and become more proactive and engaged in your own life and relationships.
Aquarius (January 20 – February 18):
Your desire for freedom and your devouring desire to love.
Your desire to travel and your devouring desire to love, to be loved and to share a fantastic relationship can build valuable bonds when you stop trying to control your future and agree that even if everyone is not like you, the key to a successful relationship is to accept the differences of the other.
Pisces (February 19 – March 20):
You have both a seductive and mysterious side, but you need it.
Remember that the things you are looking for in others are the ones you reflect the outside world. Spend more time alone with yourself and your needs and adjust your expectations according to what you can offer the world.
