Finding the right partner can require a lot of patience and perseverance. However, to help you, you can also, besides meeting people, try to make an effort on your own to put the odds on your side in order to find the person who suits you best.
Here is the change you may need to make to finally find love, according to your zodiac sign:
Aries (March 21 – April 19):
You will find love once you stop being intimidated by commitment and closeness. You are used to walking alone, to new adventures and doing what you want without having to worry about someone else.
And because of that, even when you find someone great, you have a hard time opening yourself because you fear to lose your authenticity and your adventurous spirit. But as soon as you find relationships where your independence will not be questioned, you will find it much easier to find love.
Taurus (April 20 – May 20):
You will find love once you try to control your own love life. The fact that you are so warm and so loving is one of the best things that characterizes you, but you also have a hard time dropping things and letting things happen.
It is good to have high standards and to expect that your future partner will treat you with respect and care, but you must also remember that everyone is human and you must be willing to work with your partner instead of expecting him to be perfect.
Gemini (May 21 – June 20):
You will find love once you allow yourself to be fully in front of the person you are going out with. You have always been able to attract and meet people through your dynamic and extroverted personality, but you have never let them know who you really were inside of you.
As soon as you begin to open up and show people the most sensitive and vulnerable side of your personality, you will find love.
Cancer (June 21 – July 22):
You will find love once you have opened your heart to the right people. Because you are so compassionate, so loving and so open, you attract a lot of great people – but you can also attract people who want to enjoy your empathy and altruism.
But once you start looking for other people who give as much love as you give, you will start to avoid people who are just there to take. You will spend less time wanting to heal your heart and spend more time sharing your enthusiasm and joy of living with those who truly deserve it.
Leo (July 23 – August 22):
You will find love once you realize that you can not plan it as you plan the rest of your life. You are an enterprising and enthusiastic person, and you are used to looking for what you want.
But the problem with love is that you can not control it or manipulate it as you can handle other things in your life. As soon as you stop trying to manage every aspect of your love life and just start learning to fully enjoy it, you will find it much easier to find the right person.
Virgo (August 23 – September 22):
You will find love when you stop letting your brain find reasons why it will never work. You are a great thinker and you always have a million thoughts running in your head at the same time. It often means that your brain is drowning you with scenarios, questions, and worries about how this new person could break your heart or hurt you.
When you give your mind permission to just live the moment and have fun when you meet someone new – instead of assuming all the reasons why it will not work – you will have a much easier time relaxing and to be serene with the other person and thus find love.
Libra (September 23 – October 22):
You will find love once you stop being obsessed with seduction and the beginnings of dating. You are so charming and so easy-going, but it becomes a problem when things start to slow down with one person and you no longer feel the magic of the first moments.
You like the thrill of going out with someone new, but as soon as things start to become a little familiar and safe, you often become suddenly indecisive and panicked at the thought of getting in a relationship.
Scorpio (October 23 – November 21):
You will find love once you give yourself permission to trust others and let them enter your world. You are so autonomous and independent that you have a hard time believing that you can trust someone else as much as you trust yourself.
As soon as you allow yourself to believe that you deserve to be happy with someone and that love only makes you stronger (rather than weaker), you will have a much easier time making room for someone in your life.
Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21):
You will find love once you begin to assert yourself in your own love life. You are a very optimistic, playful and positive person, but you sometimes confuse that with being active and it’s not the same things.
Because you “hope for the best”, you think that is enough but you must also intentionally launch yourself and be ready to risk hurting yourself. Once you are ready to move to the next level by throwing yourself into the unknown of the first date, you will have a much greater chance of finding love.
Capricorn (December 22 – January 19):
You will find love once you stop thinking that being “logical” in your love life and being “cynical” is one. It’s good to be pragmatic, to know what you want and to understand what love is supposed to be sometimes hard.
But you should not use this as an excuse to be negative and suspicious of dating. Once you realize that you can be optimistic and open to love without losing your realism, you will be in a much better dynamic to find the right partner.
Aquarius (January 20 – February 18):
You will find love once you stop devoting all your energy to protecting yourself. It’s good to be smart and pay attention to yourself in the world of dating, but if you close yourself to each person with whom you go out once you have reached a certain level of proximity, you will not never far away
As long as you do not stop wanting to stay detached and disconnected from your relationships, you will not find the love you are looking for.
Pisces (February 19 – March 20):
You will find love once you have stopped letting others tell you what you want. You are so accommodating and open to the ideas and advice of others, but at some point, you just have to decide what you want for yourself and stop letting everyone tell you what or who to go out with.
Once you begin to really listen to yourself, it will be much easier (and much more enjoyable) to find the right person and live your love life.