Of course, you could be an empath, but are you an empathic healer? All empaths have the potential to become that, but few really do.
Empathic healers are a step forward compared to empaths, they are the true empaths. These empaths are those who have overcome their weaknesses and overcome the pain of others. You see, empaths absorb the emotions of those around them and most empaths do not know how to distinguish their emotions from the emotions of others. This creates a lot of tension inside them and prevents them from letting go of those emotions.
Empathic healers have learned to release these emotions and to determine what belongs to them and what they are not. Of course, it sounds easy, but it really is not. Becoming an empathic healer takes a lot of work, both inside and out. If you want to become an empathic healer, you must do the following things.
7 ways to become the empathic healer you were supposed to be:
1. Cut the people in your life who are using you.
If someone constantly comes to you for something and leaves you with all his burden, it must stop. Of course, you can be a helping hand or a shoulder to cry on sometimes, but each day is too much.
If someone always takes but never gives, you must take him out of your life.
2. Let go of emotions and energies that do not belong to you.
Before going indoors each evening, sit on your porch and meditate if possible. Let go of everything you have absorbed during your day. Bring only the emotions that belong to you.
3. Watch your thoughts carefully.
If you do not want your body to be fertile ground for negative energies, you must also get rid of your negative thoughts. Learn to be more positive. See everything from the most positive aspect possible.
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4. Take time for yourself.
Spend time recharging and if you need to step back and breathe, do it. Only time is essential for all empathic healers.
5. Make your limits known.
Set boundaries in yourself for others and the things you absorb. Make these limits known and do not cross them. Hold on to your weapons.
6. Become aware of what is happening.
Remember that what you feel is not yours. Be aware of your gift and learn how to use it. Give up those emotions, feel them for a moment, then release them.
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7. Share with others.
When you feel really depressed, let someone else be there for you. Learn to open up and do it. You have a support system, but it’s not always you who should use it.
Being an empathic healer is one of the best things a person can do. Use your gift wisely and take care of yourself. This world needs you!
Recommended Book to Read:
The Spiritual Healing Handbook
The Essential Guide to Using Spiritual Healing to Improve Your Quality of Life.