“It’s not about having a perfect relationship that matters most… It’s about finding a person who will cross everything with you and who will not let you down.”
Being deeply in love is undoubtedly one of the most beautiful experiences in a person’s life. However, when we engage in a new relationship, we may ask ourselves some questions: Will the relationship last or not? Is it the right person? Are we really compatible? Did I find my soul mate?
Sometimes, when we start a relationship, we do not always know if we are made for each other. Fortunately, just take a step back and open our hearts to what is in front of us.
Here are 7 signs that often reveal that you are made for each other:
1. You are not afraid of disagreements.
You know that if you do not agree with something, your partner will listen to your point of view. He will take you seriously, even if he thinks you are wrong.
2. You allow yourself to be vulnerable.
When you open up, you live authentically. You are true and natural. Sharing your stories with your partner is deeply liberating.
It is in this vulnerability that true love can flourish. It’s a real chance to be able to say what you have on your heart without feeling judged or criticized.
“What happens when people open their hearts? They are better.”
~ Haruki Murakami
3. You end up together.
It’s only natural to keep your child’s soul and play the idiot. When you are together, you know that you can tease yourself without annoying yourself. In your relationship, laughter is always present.
In general, you start by being friends in this kind of relationship. You love yourself as you are, have your qualities and your faults. You live in a healthy environment.
Being able to freely laugh at yourself and with your partner is a rare privilege.
4. You do not pretend to be someone else.
When you are with your partner, you do not want to pay attention to what you are going to say; you are not embarrassed or worried, you know that you can stay yourself.
5. You respect each other.
Mutual respect requires a certain level of trust. The most authentic form of love is the way you behave with another person in a relationship. When there is such respect, you share things that you would not tell anyone else. Respect is deserved.
When you are in a safe relationship where you feel safe, then you know that you have found your partner.
“The day you put someone on a pedestal, he will look down on you. The trick is to respect each other. ”
~ Teresa Mummert
6. You encourage each other.
Together, you support yourself to become the best version of yourself. You become explorers and adventurers to find ways to bring you joy.
If your relationship is based on mutual admiration and inspiration, then you have found a jewel in your life.
7. You are not jealous.
You want to spend time together, but you also need to have your own space. You are not afraid to let your partner go out with his friends. You let him have his own life and his hobbies.
Between you, there is no co-dependence or possessiveness. You want to be together, but it is essential for you to have your own interests.
In the end, it is your heart that will let you know if you have found the right person. As psychologist Carl Jung said,
“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact between two chemical substances: if there is a reaction, both are transformed. “